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Romantic Comedies 'Spoil Your Love Life'

Watching romantic comedies can spoil your love life, a study by a university in Edinburgh has claimed.

Rom-coms have been blamed by relationship experts at Heriot Watt University for promoting unrealistic expectations when it comes to love.

They found fans of films such as Runaway Bride and Notting Hill often fail to communicate with their partner.

Many held the view if someone is meant to be with you, then they should know what you want without you telling them.

Psychologists at the family and personal relationships laboratory at the university studied 40 top box office hits between 1995 and 2005, and identified common themes which they believed were unrealistic.

The movies included You've Got Mail, Maid In Manhattan, The Wedding Planner and While You Were Sleeping.

The university's Dr Bjarne Holmes said: "Marriage counsellors often see couples who believe that sex should always be perfect, and if someone is meant to be with you then they will know what you want without you needing to communicate it.

"We now have some emerging evidence that suggests popular media play a role in perpetuating these ideas in people's minds.

"The problem is that while most of us know that the idea of a perfect relationship is unrealistic, some of us are still more influenced by media portrayals than we realise."

As part of the project, 100 student volunteers were asked to watch the 2001 romantic comedy Serendipity, while a further 100 watched a David Lynch drama.

Students watching the romantic film were later found to be more likely to believe in fate and destiny. A further study found that fans of romantic comedies had a stronger belief in predestined love.

Kimberly Johnson, who also worked on the study, said: "Films do capture the excitement of new relationships but they also wrongly suggest that trust and committed love exist from the moment people meet, whereas these are qualities that normally take years to develop."

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pyranos : LVL 39: VP 4.7: said:

pyranos

25 votes NegativePositive

341 days 19 hours ago...

Jayne did you write that caption for the picture?

Equand1 : LVL 33: VP 4.2: said:

Equand1

4 votes NegativePositive

341 days 19 hours ago...

i believe in true love, but that is based on my parents story not some love comedy.

Csmack : LVL 34: VP 4.2: said:

Csmack

26 votes NegativePositive

341 days 19 hours ago...

"some of us are still more influenced by media portrayals than we realise."
- "Some of us" as in women? I don`t know many guys that like those movies. Girls take those movies way too seriously.

InsayneJayne (Admin) : LVL 65: VP 5: said:

InsayneJayne

19 votes NegativePositive

341 days 15 hours ago...

I sure did, pyranos

Jombie : LVL 20: VP 2.9: said:

Jombie

3 votes NegativePositive

341 days 14 hours ago...

"Many held the view if someone is meant to be with you, then they should know what you want without you telling them."

Hasn`t it always been like this?

darkfeather : LVL 28: VP 3.7: said:

darkfeather

20 votes NegativePositive

341 days 14 hours ago...

Amen to Csmack. Don`t know any real man who believes in those disney, idealistic love..... then again, all men want is pussy......btw, I love boobs

teeth29 : LVL 35: VP 4.3: said:

teeth29

3 votes NegativePositive

341 days 13 hours ago...

death to "rom-coms"!

yunalenne10 : LVL 32: VP 4.1: said:

yunalenne10

2 votes NegativePositive

341 days 13 hours ago...

"I`m a horrible actress"

You got that right, sister. *snap* *snap*

disco dirk : LVL 17: VP 2.6: said:

disco dirk

9 votes NegativePositive

341 days 12 hours ago...

Romantic Comedies ruined my love life when my girlfriend found my stash of Matthew Mcconaughey movies

vyrtualdogg : LVL 41: VP 4.9: said:

vyrtualdogg

3 votes NegativePositive

340 days 18 hours ago...

HA!! Finally PROOF that those movies are EVIL!

nomad19 : LVL 34: VP 4.2: said:

nomad19

1 votes NegativePositive

340 days 11 hours ago...

i knew it...i knew it!! wait isn`t the dark knight considered a rom-com?...

i`ll be buried if anyone needs me

AdolfOliverBush : LVL 40: VP 4.8: said:

AdolfOliverBush

1 votes NegativePositive

339 days 12 hours ago...

So if Rom-Coms are doing that...

Imagine what Twilight is doing.

Gentlemen, we`re fucked.

Ajaxseamus : LVL 32: VP 4.1: said:

Ajaxseamus

1 votes NegativePositive

339 days 9 hours ago...

LOL adolf my gf was reading that 4 novel series which became twilight, i totally refused to see it because as soon as my gf described the vampire dude, shes like "he`s pretty much described as the perfect man". im like wait wtf? so the woman who wrote this book says the perfect man is tall, pale, dresses like a goth, sucks the blood out of living creatures for nurishment? basically we will never be perfect gentlemen...at least not until oprah says so

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